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Is Social Media Effecting your Teen's Mental Health?

Sep 5, 2018
3 min read

It's no surprise that teen suicide is growing at an alarming rate. Today's youths have far more struggles with depression, anxiety, loneliness and low self-esteem. This is due to the high impact of social media (Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat). Many teens who are affected by social media find it difficult to express their feelings or have no one they feel comfortable speaking to which creates an inner explosion of mixed feelings.

Parents, maybe you are aware of some of the apps your teen is using or not sure how they are spending their time on their phone. According to a recent interview by The Pew Research Center, Snapchat, YouTube and Instagram are among the most popular apps used by teens today. 95% of teens have access to a smartphone and about 45% of them are constantly online every day. As a therapist, I have seen the hidden dangers of using social media and how it can impact the mental health of adolescents.

Here are some strategies to use to help your teen establish a healthier relationship with social media.

1. Learn the Apps and terminology of social media.

Parents, learn the terms, such as "streak, swipe, subs, bitmoji, F4F, meme, ghost followers, etc". Be observant with the terms your teen is using to discuss what they're doing on social media. It's okay to ask your teen questions about something you don't know regarding social media. This may be a great way to build a bonding relationship with your teen and learn of any challenges they have with using social media. You can use this as an opportunity to educate your teen on the use of safety on social media and ensuring their accounts are private.

2. Observe their interaction with their friends.

Social media allows teens to connect and engage with their friends and express themselves on a social platform. However, social media is a place where teens can be found comparing themselves to filtered images on the internet or engaging in drama filled behaviors. Does your teen spend more time engaging with their friends on social media resulting in gossip and drama? If so, your teen may need some guidance on how to create healthy peer relationships.

3. Provide emotional support.

Does your teen use social media as a place to vent their frustrations? Sometimes, your teen may not have a peer group they feel comfortable sharing their frustrations with and result in expressing how they feel on social media. Teens are constantly looking for spaces to feel validation and acceptance. Parents, it's important to monitor this behavior closely to see if your teen needs to consult with a therapist to develop coping strategies.

4. Establish social media boundaries.

Social media can contribute to your teen's mental health and feelings of anxiety and exhaustion may pop up. Create a schedule that will ensure your teen isn't using social media excessively. You want to make sure your teen isn't using social media as a distraction from completing tasks, such as homework and chores. You can help your teen by creating alternative activities that do not require technology, such as dancing, painting, art, cooking, board games, reading, etc.

Remember, there are some pros and cons to social media. Establish a list of pros and cons with your teen to teach them how to navigate their successes and challenges with social media. If you are finding yourself frustrated with your teen usage on social media, please feel free to give us a call. Our therapist specializes in helping teens build executive functioning skills and getting back on track!

11 Comments


UTS Ventures
Sep 13

What stands out here is the need to pay attention to changes in behaviour rather than treating social media as automatically good or bad. Open conversations, sensible boundaries and noticing when online activity starts affecting confidence, sleep or mood can make a real difference.


That idea of spotting issues early carries over into site supervision too. Level 4 Construction Site Supervision portfolio answers often need to show how supervisors recognise warning signs, speak to the right people and take action before a small concern becomes a bigger safety or performance problem. Good supervision is often about noticing what others might miss.

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UTS Ventures
Sep 13

This is an important topic, particularly because social media can influence confidence, sleep, relationships and the way young people compare themselves with others. The most useful point is the need for parents to stay involved, communicate openly and notice changes in behaviour rather than focusing only on limiting screen time.


That same emphasis on early awareness and proportionate intervention applies in senior management too. Candidates working with NVQ Level 7 Senior Construction Site Management portfolio answer exams often need to show how they identify emerging issues, communicate with the right stakeholders and take timely action before a problem becomes more serious. In both situations, good judgement starts with paying attention to the warning signs.

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UTS Ventures
Sep 12

A useful article, particularly the emphasis on parents understanding the platforms their teens use, watching how online interactions affect them, and setting sensible boundaries rather than treating social media as entirely good or bad. The point about combining awareness with emotional support is especially important, because rules alone do not always address the underlying pressures young people may be feeling.


That same balance between monitoring, communication and informed action is important in professional environments too. In construction, for example, NVQ Level 6 Construction Site Management assessment answer examples often show how managers identify issues early, communicate with the right people and take proportionate action before problems become more serious. A thoughtful piece with practical advice that goes beyond simply limiting…

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Sehrish Khan
Sep 12

This is an important discussion, especially around helping teenagers develop healthier boundaries with social media and recognising when online activity may be affecting their emotional wellbeing. I like the emphasis on communication, emotional support, and encouraging activities away from screens, as these practical steps can help young people build confidence and healthier routines. Creating a safe and supportive environment is important in every setting, and even practical education places a strong emphasis on responsible working practices, communication, and wellbeing. NVQ health & safety and construction portfolios also shed light on this, particularly when documenting how awareness, responsibility, and safe practices are developed through real-world experience.


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